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One of the worst mistake in the world is to try to change someone, especially when you're in a relationship. It happens too often, and usually we only noticed it towards the end. I'd my fair share of that, girls trying to change who I am. Talk about control freak. Somehow, there's this obligation to give in and change it for the "better." Being the play along kind, this kind of shit couldn't take me down. It takes time to change you know, even the slightest change. I mean, you can't change a habit overnight, can you? Most of us literally thinks that "Give me one try, I sure change!" Pretty ridiculous ain't it? First of all, you've got to be willing, till the end, not just the beginning process. Well if you're not willing or comfortable about it, let her know. Acting hero is stupid, trust me. You see, the common shits that guys have in mind is to keep their partner all to themselves. "Don't meet that tom/dick/harry best friend of yours," or "Stop hanging out with your friends so often!" I'm the pretty open minded one, I find guys wanting such restrictions to be ridiculously narrow minded. I can close one eye about male best friends, but close friends? Lady, grab a new dick. Okay back to the changes part, you gonna convince yourself first, nothing will change if you can't even pass your own stage.

been chatting with this particular person lately,

further proved me wrong that people are actually this approachable.

very philosophical, very interesting.

dont be mistaken, I have no issues in that area.

in fact, I might be pretty good in it. HAHAHA

remember I used to send christmas cards around,

now I don't even do it.

time to pick it up again, love the old school habits.